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Information about depression, its symptoms and possible causes, and how you can access treatment and support. Includes tips on caring for yourself, and guidance for friends and family.
The support of friends and family can play a very important role in someone recovering from depression. Here are some suggestions for how you can help.
"The best things that friends and family can do is simply listen. They often don't need to say anything, just being willing to listen to your problems makes you feel less alone and isolated"
"Talking... not even talking about how I felt. Just talking about stupid things that didn't matter over coffee, without pressure and knowing that I can talk about the tough stuff if I want to."
"Just a simple call or text asking me how I am helps. I don't want sympathy, just to know they are there if I need them."
"Listen carefully, don't judge and most of all, don't say, ‘Cheer up.’ It's just not that simple. Sometimes solutions are unnecessary, so don't feel you have to provide one."
This information was published in March 2019. We will revise it in 2022.
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