Information for young people on looking after your wellbeing during coronavirus.
You might be feeling overwhelmed, sad, or confused about coronavirus. You might also be feeling worried about yourself, your family and friends.
Our page on managing feelings about changes to lockdown has more information on how you may be feeling.
Things might feel hard right now, but it's important to remember that this situation won't last forever.
We're here to give you advice and support to help you through this time.
This page has information on the following:
What can I do if I'm worried about my health?
Do I need to wear a mask?
Tips for taking care of your mental wellbeing
Tips on how to cope with being at home with others
What will happen with my treatment or support?
Tips on supporting others
Where else can I get support?
"Quarantine is not a holiday – it's an emergency, and emergencies mean less functioning. Don’t let yourself feel bad about this."
Follow advice from the NHS and Public Health Wales. This includes information about staying at home, washing your hands, wearing a mask. Plus other things you can do to limit the spread of the virus.
Be kind to yourself, too – if their advice makes you feel more worried, or you find it difficult to follow, talk to someone you trust like your parent, carer or a doctor.
It can be overwhelming to be constantly reminded of coronavirus.
By only checking for updates at times you set, you'll limit how much you take in, and give yourself space to think and relax.
YoungMinds have more information on social media and mental health.
Especially if you're feeling worried a lot of the time. You could open up to a friend, or talk to a trusted adult like your parent or carer.
If you'd rather talk to someone you don't know, you could call Childline using their confidential service.
Remember, it’s okay to ask for help. Even if you’re not sure what’s wrong, you always deserve support.
"Speak to someone about your struggles, whether you think they are large or small. If it feels significant to you, then it is."
Make a plan for how you'll spend your time at home. You can think about things to do, things to study, things that can make you feel better, and people to contact online.
You could also discuss with a trusted adult how they can help you, such as reminding you of your plan and checking in on you regularly.
Making a plan may also help you feel less worried about self-isolation.
Sleep is very important, especially if you have been feeling worried. And eating and drinking enough will help you keep your energy up and stay hydrated.
These things will help you look after your mental wellbeing, as well as your physical health.
"It's hard when images on social media circulate reminding us to be productive all the time, eat perfectly, exercise every day, maintain every friendship and pick up new hobbies."
Anyone over 11 years old should wear a mask, unless they have a ‘reasonable excuse’ not to, like:
If you think any of these reasonable excuses apply to you, speak to a family member or your doctor and they can support you to explore different options.
Remember that it’s important to be kind to yourself, and also to other people. Try not to judge anyone who isn’t wearing a mask, and focus on what you can do to keep yourself safe and well.
This does not just include sleeping, and what you eat and drink, but also being active, creative, and kind to others – and yourself.
If something helps you feel good, make time to do it. This could be something like drawing or baking, or listening to music.
These things all affect how we think about ourselves, other people, and things that happen around us. You can read more about this on our page on looking after your wellbeing.
"Try to stick to a routine and good sleep pattern. Keep in touch with friends and avoid talking to people who stress you out."
If you’re spending lots of time at home, especially during the winter months, there are plenty of ways to be active. For example:
For more ideas on activities you can do indoors or in your garden, visit the Scouts, Girlguiding and National Trust websites.
Being creative or taking time to relax may help you accept what is happening.
You could try:
Message, call or video-call those you can’t meet up with. It will help you feel connected, and give a sense of things continuing as usual.
You could also send someone a card or a small gift to let them know you’re thinking of them.
Remember, if you're friends or family start talking about the coronavirus too much, or you have different views, you can ask them to change the subject.
You may be able to stream a film-watching party with some friends, or find an online singing group you can join.
Just be careful about who you're connecting with, and don't join any private groups or chats without your parent or carer's permission. For advice on how to stay safe online, visit Childline’s website.
You could check them at certain times of the day only, or even switch your phone off for several hours.
You may even be able to block seeing certain words and phrases from your feed, if you feel it would help. Check the settings on the sites you use more information.
Self-care can help you manage your thoughts and feelings, and may help to improve your mental health.
Ideas include writing a diary, asking for help if you need it, relaxing, and looking after your health.
"I have an achievements jar where I write at least one thing I achieved that day (and date it) and put it in the jar."
You can visit The Mix or the Anna Freud Centre for lots more ideas on self-care.
They could be a friend, a family member, carer, a care worker, or a helpline service – anyone who you feel can give you support for how you're feeling.
You can read our information on finding support for more ideas.
"Allow yourself to feel all the emotions you need to... Something that helps me is writing down how I feel, it's just a great way to process and understand your emotions."
Try to respect everyone's privacy – not everyone may want to talk about something, or hang out at the same time.
Do something you wouldn't normally have time for – play games, watch something together, or give a room a mini-makeover.
Start the conversation about how you're feeling, if you feel able to – we have information on opening up to others to support you.
Your parent, carer or sibling might be feeling a mixture of emotions now, too.
If you're able to, they may really appreciate you supporting them as well. This could be anything from giving them a hug, to doing something extra around the house, or helping with school work.
With everything going on, you may be finding it harder to access medication, treatment or support.
It's still possible to talk to professionals about your health, such as doctors, care workers, and pharmacists. They may have just changed how they'd like you to contact them. For example, your doctor might want to phone you rather than see you at their surgery.
You may also be put on a waiting list or given an appointment that feels far away in the future. If this happens, you can ring the service to see if a closer appointment has come available, or talk to your doctor.
You can look into ordering your repeat prescription online, by app, or over the phone – you may need an adult to help you with this.
If you have symptoms of coronavirus, you should also ask someone to pick up your prescription for you, or ask your pharmacy about home delivery.
Changes may be made, or have already been made, to your treatment or care plan because of lockdown.
You can speak to someone in your mental health team to find out how your support can carry on. Or to see if changes need to be made. They can also support you if a new referral is taking a long time to be processed.
If you're having counselling in your school or college, they should tell you what to do over lockdown if you need someone to talk to.
If you have been struggling with how you’re feeling for some time, and think you need some support to help you cope, talking to your doctor is a good place to start.
If you don’t want to talk to your doctor, or you’re unsure about what other support is out there for you, you can find more information on our finding support page.
The support you receive under your EHC plan or Statement of SEN might be affected by changes made by the government.
If you're worried about this or want to talk to someone, you can speak to your council or your school's Special Educational Needs Coordinator (SENCO).
The government has made changes to the way adult social care is provided. If you've turned 18 and want to know more about the changes, you can read about them on our coronavirus and social care rights page.
If you are in England, the government has also made changes to the way your council needs to plan your move from child to adult social care. If you're receiving care or you're a young carer, this might affect:
If you're worried about this or want more information, you can speak to your social worker.
If you're still not sure what is happening, or what's going to happen, talk to your parent or carer about what you can do together, so they can help support you until you get more answers.
“It is a myth that services have closed down and help is not available during the pandemic. We are very open and keen to reach out to people who need our help.”
-Dr Kate Lovett (Psychiatrist working during coronavirus)
It's normal to feel sad or guilty about distancing yourself from someone you love or care about. You might be worried that they’re struggling with less face to face contact, or feel worried about their health over the winter.
But remember that it's not forever, and it's about protecting them and looking after them, even from a distance.
If you're worried about friends or family:
Sending them texts and pictures, and agreeing a regular time to talk to each other on the phone, will help them feel they’re supported and are being thought of. You could also video call them, if that's available to you both.
Let them know that you’re there if they want to talk. You can also share this web page with them, or our guide for adults.
You could encourage them to tidy up around the house, or do some gentle exercises indoors or outside if this is possible.
You may be worried about a family member who is working in unsafe conditions.
You can show your support for them by checking in, asking how work is and how they’re coping. You could also share our information on coping as key worker with them.
You may also be worried about a sibling or friend who is finding school difficult at the minute. You can show your support by checking in on them and giving them space to talk about their feelings.
Send them a message, or say thank you to them on social media through our #SpeakYourMind challenge on TikTok.
They may understand, or even feel the same, and be able to support you.
During this time, you may find you need more support, or want to connect with people who you identify with.
We have information on finding support and talking to a doctor which you might find helpful.
For a list of other organisations who can help, visit our coronavirus useful contacts page. Many organisations offer text or instant messaging services for extra privacy.
This information was last updated on 15 January 2021.