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Explains what post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and complex PTSD are, and provides information on how you can access treatment and support. Includes self-care tips and guidance for friends and family.
Living with PTSD can feel overwhelming. This page offers some practical suggestions for looking after yourself.
"You can't stop the waves but you can learn to surf; through my PTSD recovery journey I've learnt that emotions come and go in waves […] it's best not to fight against them but ride with them."
You might find that certain experiences, situations or people seem to trigger flashbacks or other symptoms. These might include specific reminders of past trauma, such as smells, sounds, words, places or particular types of books or films. Some people find things especially difficult on significant dates, such as the anniversary of a traumatic experience.
Lots of people who experience PTSD find it hard to open up to others. This may be because you feel unable to talk about what has happened to you. However, you don't need to be able to describe the trauma to tell someone how you are currently feeling.
It could help to talk to a friend or family member, or a professional such as a GP or a trained listener at a helpline. (See our page on telephone support for more information about helplines.)
Everyone has their own unique response to trauma and it's important to take things at your own pace. For example, it may not be helpful to talk about your experiences before you feel ready. Try to be patient with yourself and don't judge yourself harshly for needing time and support to recover from PTSD.
Peer support brings together people who have had similar experiences, which some people find very helpful. (See our pages on peer support for more information about what it involves and how to find a peer support group to suit you.)
"Hope. There is always hope. With the right treatment and support, things will get better. I’m a living testament."
You might find it useful to contact an organisation that specialises in advice and support for PTSD, such as ASSIST Trauma Care. It could also be helpful to find an organisation with expertise in the particular type of trauma you have experienced. (See our useful contacts page for details of relevant organisations.)
Coping with PTSD can be exhausting. You might feel like you can't find the energy to take care of yourself, but looking after your physical health can make a difference to how you feel emotionally. For example, it can help to:
Lots of people who experience PTSD have problems sleeping. You might find it hard to fall or stay asleep, feel unsafe during the night, or feel anxious or afraid of having nightmares. (See our page on coping with sleep problems for more information.)
"The things that helped me: I took up running (which helped me sleep, as it seemed to ‘clear’ the excess adrenaline); talking to lots of my friends and my sisters, again and again; giving up sugar and alcohol (I was using them as masks for my erratic behaviour)."
This information was published in May 2017. We will revise it in 2020.
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